I keep on hearing people talking about their ‘mental health’ as though it were a badly behaved pet puppy or, perhaps, a bit like the daemons in Philip Pullman’s novels. To be sure we have probably all found the lockdown and the past year rather stressful but a bit of stiff upper lip and pulling ourselves together might not go amiss, as the Edwardians would have said.
But there is another way.
Swearing.
Emma Byrne has written a book called “Swearing is Good for You – The Amazing Science of Bad Language”. The book says not only that some form of swearing has existed since the earliest humans got irritated, but it states that swearing can reduce pain, help stroke victims learn how to speak again, and, even, encourage teamwork.
The book cites historical case studies and claims to have conducted cutting-edge research. Emma writes about chimpanzees creating their own swearwords; about a man who lost half his brain in a mining accident experiencing a new-found compulsion to swear (well I’m not surprised at that). In short Dr Emma Byrne describes the fascinating science behind swearing and how it affects us physically and emotionally. More importantly she asserts that it’s beneficial to our mental health.
What a load of old bollocks I thought.
But in my own experience swearing can indeed be a way of emphasising a fact or an intensity of feeling. An old friend who is a magically passionate presenter uses the f*** word liberally. It’s his own eccentric form of punctuation. You become immune to it after a while so when he stops using it your ears prick up and you double your concentration.
Another person I know seldom swears very seldom but when she does the effect is nuclear.
One of our grandsons when he was about 3 showed some precocious talent at invective when his mother was irritated by someone’s driving shouting “dirty nappy-man!” at the offender.
But the vocabulary for swearing is generally rather limited and there’s a need to create some more exotic terms with which to sprinkle our vocabulary. I enjoyed a few Michael Spicer’s used. He called Donald Trump ‘a massive fart’ and a ‘puffin’ (not bad), Priti Patel a ‘brainless wasp’ and as a simple expletive ‘Jeremy H. F***ing Hunt’.
Here were a few new ones I quite liked:
- Gnashgab – someone who constantly complains
- Klazomaniac – someone who speaks very and irritatingly loudly
- Muck-Spout – what this blog is all about – someone who constantly swears
- Windf***er – archaic term of abuse but which describes someone vague and useless
But we can be more inventive and the impact can be explosive – calling someone ‘a useless smear of slime’ can be as disorientating as calling them a ‘useless turd’ (as opposed to a useful turd??)
In the Times recently the results of a three-month study into the frequency of use of swearing in different professions appeared.
The league table surprised me:
1. Banking – ‘f***’ - 960 times a week observed in their offices – extraordinary.
2. Law – ‘bullshit’ – well that’s self-awareness at least
3. Hospitality (thanks to Gordon Ramsay I imagine)
4. Sales – naturally
5. Media – ‘bollocks’ – which, of course, it is
What disappointed me deeply was my previous profession, “advertising,” came a miserable 9th. How times have changed. In my day we were the kings of abuse. We were so politically incorrect it makes me cringe to remember. The air around us was not blue it was technicolour with vivid, excoriating abuse.
So if you feel the need to swear just let rip. You’ll feel a lot better. It’s official.
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